Ok... for those of you that knows about my situation with my ex... http://bbs.clutchcity.net/php3/showthread.php?s=&threadid=61688 http://bbs.clutchcity.net/php3/showthread.php?s=&threadid=61794 I did sent her a letter to express my feelings a couple days ago & she called me earlier today... DEVASTATING! She told me if I didn't asked to break up with her in the first place she believe we'll still be together but since she's already with someone else... she's happy with her life right now...$%#@!#@ DEVASTATING! Ok, so I screw up! What's worse, she speaks to me on the phone the same way as before we broke up... $%^#&... I haven't heard that sweet voice for fuc*ing two & half years & this is what I get from remembering the past!!! Yeah, call me a fool... I misintepreted her thoughts/actions the last time we met ( I probably will still be fooled again today by her voice if I didn't get straight to the point with her)... yeah, she must feel pretty good that I still have feelings for her & she's confortable talking to me about our past relationship... guess what? she even tried to cheer me up! Ok, I'll take this like a man with a broken heart. My ex & I started our relationship exactly 4 years ago, we broke up exactly 2 years ago & today, well... perhaps it's the final chapter of our amazing story... goodbye my past! goodbye my love! Even though the ending is not as well as what I initially had in mind, but if you can hear me sweetheart, l still thank you deeply from the bottom of my heart (even though it's already broken into million pieces) for all the wonderful memories we had together! And I can only do nothing but wish you all the success & happiness in the future! Please take care! Ok, now, my fellow Clutchcity BBS posters, thank you for all your support in my past threads, now I need some help/suggestions about what to do after a day/night like this... any suggestions? Sincerely, CRC
The popular response to all sorts of problems on the board lately has been to slash their tires. Maybe that would work here, too.
CRC, Do things that you enjoy doing. Be around the people who mean the most to you like your family. Watch a movie on TV, go out and run, do anything you can to try to get your mind off this chick. I hate to admit this but almost 4 years ago, I spent like about 3 days straight crying my eyes out like a little b**** whenever I thought of this one girl. I told myself that I would never let something like that happen again. Having a job where you have to work 8 to 9 hours a day helps get your mind off that stuff (if you have actual work to do instead of reading the BBS ). Good luck.
Did you hit it before you broke up? I would get on with your life ASAP. Women come and go. I've dated so many girls in my life and I never met one that I was willing to put up with for longer than a few months. I met my wife 12 years ago and things haven't been the same since. So have faith, that special someone is out there for you. Just that girl is not that one for you. She's moved on, it's time for you to do so as well.
I once left a message on a girl's answering machine telling her our relationship of 2 1/2 years was over. For some reason we did not remain the best of friends
kinda puts a damper on ex-sex doesn't it? CRC..it isnt easy..but move on..dont live in the past.it aint worth it.
CRC, There were reasons you broke up and they would rear their ugly head again...just move on.....everyone has a Sig Other in their past that they remember fondly. However, love is much sweeter with someone new. DD
I love the dead before they’re cold They’re bluing flesh for me to hold Cadaver eyes upon me see nothing I love the dead before they rise No farewells, no goodbyes I never knew your rotting face While friends and lovers mourn your silly grave I have other uses for you, darling We love the dead We love the dead, yeah --Alice Cooper
Dammit. Beat me to it, Bluto. CRC, all my ex girlfriends are married now. The last girl I broke up with (she cheated on me) kept calling me every day. She was trying to manipulate me into getting back together and I almost fell for it. One day, I just stopped answering the phone and I never called her again. It was like a light switch came on and I decided to "sack up". I learned never to let a girl walk all over me again and I haven't to this day. I know it sounds like a cliche, but you gotta move on ASAP.
eat, drink and be merry... If that don't work, start sleeping around with as many women as possible... This may not help emotionally, but you'll feel pretty damn good...
