If it works out or not, that is the way it was supposed to be............if it doesn't work out try to get some break up sex.
This board has a severe case of A.D.D. She is from Houston.....she wants to be a youth minister so she sent an application to a church here looking for someone with her services. They flew her into Midland, from Houston, for an interview. They were so impressed by her that they cancelled every other interview. She was the only one they flew in. She has the job and she will be here for the summer. I didnt interview her LOL. My chocolate business is doing well but not well enough to fly in someone from Houston LOL. And what about...saving ourselves for marriage...is so hard to understand? That means no sex, for those having such a hard time with this concept. Thats one reason why I love her. All of my life I have always been pressured to give in with every girl I have ever known. I trust her...she loves me for all of the right reasons.
Fair enough, but when did you actually spend time with her if you didn't even interview her? If she flew in for just an interview, I assume she wasn't there more than about 24 hours. A lot of us are curious as to how much time you two have actually spent face to face, because it doesn't seem like much. Don't get me wrong. I've done the long distance thing before myself. Actually, that may be why this intrigues me in the first place... Either way, you're accusing us all of having A.D.D. when you haven't actually answered the question!
OK, so let me get this straight. She's from Midland and she wants to work for your chocolate company here in Houston. She tried to get a job at a church, but they flew a bunch of people in and she didn't get the interview. You want to hire her but you're flying some other people into Houston from Midland to interview for the job first. You're not sure if you like her because she's pressuring you into having premarital sex?
This thread is a great example of why it is probably not the best idea to discuss your relationships with the opposite sex on the Internet. I understand the anonymity aspect and that you are excited, but still from what I have seen and learned, I would keep that part of my life private.