I had a friend in High school who once told me within a few sentence in conversation he could get any girl to sleep with him. This guy was very popular in school. He told me he had a very simple technique where he would find out the girls personality by talking to her and matching the same energy or giving back a positive vibe that would match hers. A few jokes here and drinks there and boom he goes barbaric. I was thinking maybe we can crack the code here. Add everyones experience to get a equations. From my own experience I think the most important thing a girls looks for is how is the men dressed. I always try to dress my freshest clothes when out in public.
The biggest mistake a guy makes is becoming a friend with a girl he wants to date. It will never workout.
yes, you always have to look good when meeting a girl or at least try to. First expressions are very important.
Oh another thing I want to add if a girl is starring at you for more then a 3 second she wants you to go and talk to her.
But how do go from a stranger to having shots with her. I'm gathering a lot info and talking to a lot women so this code would be easier for other mens out there.
talking about education is the last thing you want to say to a girl you just met unless you are actually in school or know her from school.
This. Is r****ded. You don't need fresh clothes to pull britches. A shower, maybe, and some confidence should put you in scoring position.
you need to be confident and direct yet not creepy.. if you want to get in her pants you need to make her want to get in your pants. be exciting. predictable is lame... be able to turn the page. If she is not going for it dont waste your time too much. Set your standards high and be funny about it.. She needs to want you. You are the man. If you dont get laid after a while you can always get a slump buster off the internet. That will usually bring the spirits up. Initially whether contrived or not there needs to be a reason to speak. If you are obvious about it ,and not casual then it is forced, and you look like a creeper. Once you are talking go for it, and tease her but be subtle. some will say to even cut her down a little.. I think that sucks ,but dont hate the playa just hate the game. You need to know this going in, and play the game unfortunately.
I find myself thinking this more and more as time goes by, but thank god I'm married and don't have to worry about this kind of bull**** anymore.
Xerobull -my favorite part of that link: By the description of attraction in the Ladder Theory it only goes to follow that if a woman can't have a rich man, that she'll gravitate toward an Outlaw Biker. xerobull care to give the short version of this ladder theory? That was lots of words without telling me how to get in pants. I understand rich and power but that was a tad obvious. Maybe I missed something?
