relationship ?: can u b in luv but intimately incompatible?

Cohen · Nov 4, 2007

BetterThanI said:

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Realize that ANY successful relationship is going to require some compromise in "being true to yourself" in one way or another. It could be something major, like learning a new way to communicate with your spouse/partner, or it could be something minor, like not drinking out of the milk carton. Fact is, you'll have to be the one who makes the call whether or not the compromise is worth the relationship. I can say, however, that if my wife had told me that I can't talk to women at all, we would not be together today. I can't be with someone who doesn't trust me as much as I trust them.
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Compromise when dealing with another's insecurities would only mean giving them some time to grow through it, imo. If they don't recognize it as such and aren't willing to work on it, I don't think it requires any compromise in one's own character. If serious, could be a deal-breaker, imho.

Mr. Clutch · Nov 4, 2007

Have you tried Viagra?

verse · Nov 4, 2007

Mr. Clutch: not the prob

Cohen: yep. its her insecurities that drive this prob.

DonkeyMagic · Nov 4, 2007

verse said:

yes that's what I mean...in part.

it extends to socially, as well. I'm a sociable, friendly guy by nature. I also do attract women because of my nature. my thing is that every female that I meet doesn't necessarily want me. that's a fact. but she sees it that way. as such, we go out and I am restricted to whom I can talk - or even look - at. funny thing is my woman ends up being cool with them, but I have to be the ******* upfront because of her insecurities. that is so contrary to my personality and I feel bad about it because I am not being true to myself!
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get out while you can dude. Or tell her to get help with her insecurities. Thats bad news waiting to happen

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