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Breakup Epidemic Sign In Thread

Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by Major Malcontent, Jun 26, 2007.

  1. Major Malcontent

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    Holy crap a lot of us have been dumped in the past couple months. Not to be morbid or anything but I am curious how many.

    So if you have been dumped in the last..say 6 months. Just add one to the previous number.

    I am

    One
     
  2. HotRocket

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    Sign me up for yesterday at around lunchtime. I was fed up with dealing with her crap, so I just called it off.

    Plus it was long distance, which never works.
     
  3. DonkeyMagic

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    chalk me up.. but I wasnt dumped, as you said. 6 years no marriage. It ended as smoothly as it could have and there are no hard feelings.
     
  4. DonkeyMagic

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    old friend called monday...he's getting divorced.
    Another, broke up with a chick he'd been seeing about a year.
    Tis the season
     
  5. Harrisment

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    I was dumped and divorced about 10 months ago.

    I have been in a relationship though for the past 7 months with a great girl who moved in with me. I called it off yesterday though so we are going through a break up. I realized I'm just not ready. :(
     
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  6. DonkeyMagic

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    good lord man. you didnt wait around long to have another chick move back in with you.
     
  7. Harrisment

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    Yeah, I get that a lot. I just don't like to waste any time. ;)
     
  8. percicles

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    I was dumped 8 months ago.
     
  9. Faos

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    Most common break up line?

    "It's not you, it's me."

    "It is what it is."

    I've heard them both.
     
  10. macalu

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    whenever anyone says that line, it is MOST DEFINITELY "you".

    my dad would sign in if he could. my stepmom left him 2 weeks ago. that's twice his wife has left him.
     
  11. DonkeyMagic

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    i dont know...the "its not you its me" line could also mean they are seeing someone else but cant own up to it.
     
  12. conquistador#11

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    Dumped in november, while i was at the hospital recovering from some complications due to treatments! She said she couldn't handle seeing me die. Ironically, she works @ the UTHMC in cancer research :confused:
    My hospitalization left me without feeling on my left arm and without the ability to play the violin; but nothing hurt more than "I can't do this anymore".

    8 months later, I'm full of life again....But i would be lying if i said, that I didn't feel hatred towards her. a relationship can sometimes turn out to be like a bad free agency signing, i was stuck with a cato like contract!
     
  13. Rocketman95

    Rocketman95 Hangout Boy

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    Well, you know my story.

    A buddy of mine's old college friend committed suicide this past weekend two weeks after his divorce was final. I'm glad I'm not taking it that hard.
     
  14. Fatty FatBastard

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    Hmmm.. I got dumped close to 5 years ago. I haven't been serious with anyone since. I just haven't found the right one, nor do I feel compelled to be in a relationship.

    To all those who have been dumped recently, please just take a year off for yourself. You can still date, obviously, but hold off on trying anything serious.

    think alot of people on this board need to pause and learn to be happy on their own. THEN maybe look for something more serious.

    I've seen a lot of stories about people jumping into one relationship right after the other. Ultimately, I don't think that is healthy.
     
  15. Manny Ramirez

    Manny Ramirez The Music Man

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    There are not many Fatty posts that I agree with but I agree with this one.
     
  16. ima_drummer2k

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    I was going to say the same thing. Don't think I've ever seen a 'relationship' post from FFB that I agree with, but this one I do.

    I think it's healthy to do your own thing for a while after a LTR ends. I've known some friends (and family members...) who are scared to be alone and that's left them in some bad relationships.

    I don't think anyone should be scared to be alone. Not saying anyone here is, I'm just making a point. People should learn to be more independent.
     
  17. MiddleMan

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    i'm in the same scenerio as fatty but for myself has been 4 years avoiding serious relationship but i do have an eye for one chick ;)
     
  18. MiddleMan

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    I'm sorry to hear that bro.. that same thing happen to one of my closest friends that i grew up with nobody saw that coming.
     
  19. Rocketman95

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    Yeah, it's crazy. I guess I could understand something like that if you had no one, but I'm lucky that I have such awesome friends and family that I can't even imagine considering it.
     
  20. DonkeyMagic

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    dude. thats horrible. I know some people at MDACC..she deserves bad things to happen to her ;)
     

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