The car keying thread got me thinking, nobody likes a whiny person that won't shut up, but at the same time no one likes an arrogant prick either. But if there's a real injustice (like double parking), is the only recourse you have really a throwdown? If you don't believe violence solves everything are you just a whiny b****? No one likes someone who sits around and just complains all day. It's easy to point out problems but not so easy to implement solutions. No one likes a whiner. But which one is worse?
i think a better poll would be who deserves more of a beatdown? the knowingly double parker or the car keyer?
i can deal with whiny. sometimes arrogant people need to get their ass kicked. arrogance is more annoying
Tough question - when I think of whiny, I think more of little kids. I don't know many whiny adults (although there are a few). However, I know plenty of arrogant people. So, I will say arrogant pisses me off more.
Whiners hate arrogance. If you hate arrogance, chances are you are a whiny b**** yourself. Time to look in the mirror and cry yourself to sleep.
Hey, weren't you the one whining about some girl stealing the leadership position from your group of friends? Arrogance is just another word for insecurity. DD
Perhaps it would be easier to choose if everybody had some visual aids. Whiny = Arrogant = For me, whiny wins in a landslide...
I have the patience to deal with whiny people and help them cut it out. I don't have the patience to deal with arrogant people. They can be arrogant somewhere else far away from me.
Both can grow on you quickly...both can lead you to potential homicide. I'll look at it this way.... "b****in" wife or cocky little brother. "high-nosed, snotty" wife or whining little brother. It's like asking would rather die by being electrocuted or put in firing squad. It's pretty damn bad either way you put it.
Actually, Fatty, Dakota sorta beat me to the punch but expanding on his post a little more...you might be the only person I have met on-line that is both whiny AND arrogant! I mean your arrogance shows with threads like "I Am Great" (or something like this) and talking about your posse. Which don't get me wrong, I enjoy those threads because it is always entertaining to read them (especially when they were started in the wee hours of the morning) and also to read the beatdowns that you get from others, hehe. Then the whinyness comes through when you complain about having to go to court or a smoking ban or me starting another music thread , etc. So thanks to you Fatty, you have allowed me to see that someone can be whiny and arrogant and even be that at the same time!