Men do you pay for everything in your relationship/marriage?

Oh how I love relationship threads!

 

I am not likely to date a woman with 3 kids, 2 fathers and never married.

I would find out that information before dating someone.

Just like I would not mind telling a woman what my profession is before we date.

I don't think information is "bad".

If I were single and talking to a woman and she asked if I were married before or had kids, I would not get upset - I would answer her because I understand people have preferences and would not want to waste my time.

 

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This is the year 2026. Too many women fought and sacrificed themselves for today's woman not to take advantage of their ability to be independent and/or occasionally offer to pay for things men traditionally have paid for. In that same light as a man I am not going to expect a woman to play a particular role just because she is of a certain gender.

 

Questions are asked before dating.

The issue is.... ''upset'' vs ''red flag".

Those two dynamics can exist independent of each other before and during dating.

Delusional is more like it.

There's a reason women don't typically straight-up ask how much money -- asking occupation is a more innocent way to gauge. Sounds like you kinda already understand this (others prob do too)... which is surprising why I'm getting so much push back.

Boy meets girl. Girl asks occupation within 2 minutes. Flag de Red.

People can call it, "just making conversation", all they want - but women's gigantic imaginations are fully capable of many, many other questions/topics. Observe