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Discussion in 'BBS Hangout' started by LouisHTown, Aug 16, 2019.

  1. LouisHTown

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    so my ex and I are in friendly terms. She broke up with me because I wasn’t the best in our relationship and messed up. However, lately it seems like she wants to get together and not in a relationship. I still have feelings for her but I think she’s over me and wants to just smash. I don’t see anything wrong with it. I’m fine with just smashing her but not sure if she will ever trust me again. Yay or nay?
     
  2. Clutch City1993

    Clutch City1993 Bury Me In The H
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    Whatever floats your boat sir
     
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    If its just friends with benefits do you care if she will trust you? Do you eventually want to have a relationship? They never forget, they can forgive but IMO theirs always a little doubt in their mind........I am assuming you may have strayed at one point?
     
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    Need more facts (pic).
     
  5. Haymitch

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    I don't see what the issue is. Smash for a bit to get over her then move on. Or don't smash and move on now.

    Flip a coin.
     
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    Pics or gtfo
     
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    Always about the make up smash.
     
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    rockbox Around before clutchcity.com

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    Once you cheated, she will never trust you completely ever again. That is just a fact. Will she trust you enough to date you or even marry you, it depends. Girls can deal with a lot of crap from a guy.
     
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    superfob Mommy WOW! I'm a Big Kid now.

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    Smash and be happy you don't have to deal with all the bf stuff.
     
  11. steddinotayto

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    Best 4th post in Clutchfans history.
     
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    Is this thread more (or less) interesting once you learn the OP is a Family Law attorney. :) :cool:

     
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    Sounds like you may hit and not sure your feelings will be able to quit it.
     
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    Smash or no smash is all about chemistry and pic worthiness.

    Survey says...?
     
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  15. Acura

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    Sounds like you are in your feelings still
     
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    Don’t catch feelings.
     
  17. Sajan

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    Enjoy the smashing while you can without catching feelings.
    She won't trust you.

    Also, the chances of you slipping up again are still relatively high. So I was her, I wouldn't blindly trust you again.
     
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    If you still have feelings for her, I wouldn't do it.
     
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    If you both are clear about the "friends with benefits" friendship, with a twist, why not? The "twist" and what makes your situation different from mine is that long ago, and far away (Montrose/Midtown), when I was doing the "friends with benefits" thing, it was with girls I was never in a relationship with. We were friends who got loaded one night (you might be surprised how often that could happen in the late'60's/early '70's), fell into the sack, and decided we liked it on an occasional basis. I had a couple of friends like that, but we were all hippies. It seemed like part of the lifestyle at the time. Today? I have no idea what it's like. Could be the complications don't make the payoff worth it.
     
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    When Hillary said it "took a village to raise a child" was it because paternity tests weren't a thing back then?
     
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